Wishing the family peace in your quiet moments and comfort to replace your grief. So sorry for your loss. It is my heartfelt prayer that God will give the family comfort and soothe your aching hearts for Psalms 34:18 promises, "God is near to those broken at heart; and those crushed in spirit he saves." Ernestine was loved and will be missed. Though it's hard to cope with her passing and the pain seems unbearable, please remember you are not alone for Psalms 46:1 says, "God is our refuge and strength. A help that is readily found in times of distress." Pray to Him for strength. Weep to Him when there are no words. Bask in his comfort when your grief is overwhelming. With deepest sympathy.